That's a major concern among our pastors. They get caught up with their members lives that they often forget their own family. We should help our pastors deal with this problem. It is almost alwyas a failure to adapt to new environments considering that our pastor changes their local churchs every 9 years only. The most neglected are the pastor's children. My suggestion is that we make it our concern that the pastor's FAMILY should be a member of our family. Communication is always vital in this endeavor.